Gay & growing older

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Leo
Gay & growing older
February 03, 2018 09:36PM
I'm 24 but have same age friends who say negative things about older gays in their 40 50 60's especially if they cruise them. I give them convo and befriended a few even if not interested in them but do not mislead them otherwise. Some are thankful for the friendship since their peers are no longer alive. They share stories of their youth and life in the past. I feel us younger gays owe it to them somehow They have their place as we all do.

I hope to live long enough to grow older with good health and still be desired by someone I desire of any age and who desires me too.

Hook up with whoever you want but just strike up a convo with an older gay dude and be surprised at how much you have in common than you think.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
February 03, 2018 09:54PM
Nah I prefer to be empty and shallow just like my fellow fag.gots
Concerned Citizen
Re: Gay & growing older
February 04, 2018 02:18AM
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Wow Anonymous, you’re a douche man. Not cool
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
February 04, 2018 06:30AM
It's a shame that the younger gay generation can't learn from the older gay generation and vice versa. Younger and older folks generally don't mix much in gay or straight life, but that split is even more pronounced in the gay community, where younger guys don't want to be hit on sexually by older guys, and older guys don't want to be perceived as sugar daddies.
^So True!
Re: Gay & growing older
February 04, 2018 07:48PM
I'm now in my mid 30's and don't have anything in common with younger gay guys in their teen and early twenties. I suppose it's because I'm ready to settle down with a guy my age while the younger guys are still out trying to decide what they want to be when they "grow up!" LOL!
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
February 05, 2018 02:27AM
Yes, age changes the whole perspective.

Younger: latest music, club, scene, style

Older: finances, health, retirement

Younger: finishing education, finding a career, establishing a lifestyle

Older: finishing a career, finding a retirement destination, enjoying a life well spent

Younger: Making new friends, exploring new things, being open to life

Older: Having parents pass away, being grateful for old friends, looking back over life

Younger: Physically fresh, able to recover quickly, stamina

Older: Physically more tired, less able to recover quickly, less stamina

So, a younger guy and an older guy are coming at life from different perspectives, which is why it's hard to make a friendship or relationship work.
Jake Harper
Re: Gay & growing older
February 08, 2018 03:19PM
I am a lonely gay man and I've thought about committing suicide because not having children or a lover, I am so lonely around Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's.
Re: Gay & growing older
February 09, 2018 08:45AM
No desire to be with a shallow young faggot !!
What's wrong with just talking?
Re: Gay & growing older
February 10, 2018 06:42PM
I'm sure older guys can at least relate to younger guys in the sense that they have been there and done that. Whether gay or straight there are life lesson which can be shared by older which could possibly aid the younger as they go through life. There is nothing new under the sun just as your parents often tried to tell you. Too bad younger guys don't understand that older guys were once young, the choices they make today can impact their tomorrow and NO you're not infallible and will not live forever.

Not interested in being in a relationship with a younger guy but if I can help them avoid some of the lifestyle mistakes so many of us have made it would be worth it.Times change but people don't. Kudos to the young OP for at least being willing to listen which appears to be the point of their post. Nothing wrong with just having conversations. Wish I had willing to do the same when I was younger.
^Agree 100%
Re: Gay & growing older
February 10, 2018 06:57PM
If it weren't for my uncle and his now "husband" I'd probably still be in the closet! He's been a great inspiration to me and taught me to be "me" and not who others wanted me to be! I often you to him for advice and he's been instrumental in helping me finally find my very own Mr. Right! Far too often I was settling for "Mr. Right Now" vs. finding a man who truly cared about me and not just my body. My tio's recently adopted 2 young siblings who had been in 7 different foster homes because of behavior issues that my uncles were willing to handle and have finally gotten under control! These 2 kids are truly lucky to have 2 wonderful fathers who loved them enough to make them part of our family! This too has inspired me and my bf to want to get married and adopt at least one hard to adopt special needs child once we're ready for that challenge!
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Re: Gay & growing older
February 10, 2018 07:07PM
any gay older than 35 should just do a suicide
^LOL!
Re: Gay & growing older
February 10, 2018 07:10PM
I'm sure Tru-mp and his supporters agree with you 100%!
Historia 100% VERDADERA!
Re: Gay & growing older
February 10, 2018 07:22PM
As a kid both me and my brother were frequently molested by an old perv that had gained the confidence of my parents as well as many other Latino parents in our small community. He only targeted boys under 12 and once we reached that age he simply didn't bother us. As for myself, the experience didn't bother me at all (or turn me gay) BUT my brother who was a year older than me is still affected to this day and has trouble staying in a relationship for more than a year. He even blames the old perv for me being gay! I assure him that that experience did NOT turn me gay since I already had "feelings" for men before we ever met this depraved man! I believe the worst of all was the fact that he was married and we later found out that his wife KNEW that her pedo husband was a child molester and continued to let it happen to many Latino boys in town! Later even the Catholic bilingual priest turned out to be a child molester who molested many Latino alter boys! Hard to believe this all happened in such a small town!
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
February 11, 2018 02:51AM
TO: February 10, 2018 07:07PM

I can't wait until you turn 35! One less ignorant person to pollute the planet!
Hi All
Re: Gay & growing older
February 11, 2018 08:13AM
Sounds like a mix of ideas on the subject here. To each, his own. To those who get depressed, please try not to, and if it is really bad, please consider talking to a professional, as everyone deserves to be happy. I can see from reading this board for over a year, that there are a lot of different personalities. I see people with quick wit and humor, people looking for advice, people with good intentions, etc. I am impressed by the people trying to support each other here. Best to you all.
Spike's Grand Pappy
Re: Gay & growing older
February 11, 2018 04:19PM
I am an old lonely gay man and the holidays is very depressing for me. My biggest fear living alone and being old is having a heart attack or stroke and no one will be there to help me. Hi All, I was in therapy for 20 years dealing with depression, being gay, and lonely. In the gay lifestyle, if you don't have a gym body with a handsome face, men will not look at you or speak to you. I know I will die soon because I am 76 years old living all alone in my Malibu, California home. My no good grandson and his father Spike Sr. and Spike Jr. rarely come to visit me because they're living their lives being whores.
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Re: Gay & growing older
February 11, 2018 10:16PM
In reading this post between the sarcasm there is probably some veiled truth revealed. Know that every gay male does not have a gym body and or handsome face so you might want to alleviate yourself of that myth first and foremost. There are many gay men who are just as average as the "guy next door." You yourself might represent that population of gay men as well. If you are feeling lonely you might want to try to venture out more to connect with people who are not possible persons of intimate affection but merely as friends. Who knows, perhaps the Mr.Right for you will appear in the place you least expect. A meeting that will surely make it more memorable.
Hi All
Re: Gay & growing older
February 14, 2018 05:18AM
Amen! Great post!
Yo Digo
Re: Gay & growing older
February 19, 2018 12:56AM
Deteriorating health and death is not just an issue for aging persons but is a possibly for all. Aging gays at times experience the loss of their partners and may in time want to seek out a relationship with another person. They may want to recapture some of the youth and vitality they once had and or shared with the person they lost or maybe their older peers are already partnered and not available. If the younger and older are receptive to connecting that is their business. If the age difference is a turn-off to you then don't consider it.

But the younger at least owe older gays some gratitude or thanks for helping to make todays climate of acceptance possible and that you cannot deny.
Hi All
Re: Gay & growing older
February 24, 2018 05:27AM
I think many are trying to say it, and some may not get it, but just want to say: really try to look at who a person really is, not just at a person's looks....you may be a lot happier when you find someone of real substance. Best wishes to all.
Re: Gay & growing older
April 12, 2018 03:44AM
You don,t need to be lonely Leo. Email me at howiebenz@yahoo.com and add Skype Howiebenz . I am seeking real friend , I am not an Escort.
DV
Re: Gay & growing older
April 12, 2018 04:38AM
I'm 44 . I have always been into guys my age or older, but I always get hit on by much younger guys now. The last guy is 20! He is a teller at my bank. Maybe I should just go with it...
Tex
Re: Gay & growing older
April 12, 2018 11:22AM
Of course you can be friends with an older guy, learn from him, enjoy listening to his stories, and so on. But wanting to have sex with him is a totally different kettle of fish. Sex is a young person's game, for both men and women. We find young people sexually attractive for good evolutionary reasons. Young people are stronger, fitter, faster, more adaptable, more imaginative, and thus better fuckers and better suited for producing and bringing up children. Yes, yes, there are young people who agree to go beyond mere friendship and actually have sex with older people, but that is usually for other reasons, and often in response to psychological pressure. - Ask yourselves, would you watch any of the BLM videos if they only showed men over 60?
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
April 12, 2018 03:51PM
^^^
Have you ever talked with an older person about his or her sex life?

What do you imagine happens to an older person as he or she ages?

At what age do you imagine this magical transition occurs from being a younger person to being an older person?

Are you implying that older people no longer have any use or purpose?

Do you think that "survival of the fittest" applies only to younger people?

Who are you to decide how other people live their lives?
Tex
Re: Gay & growing older
April 14, 2018 03:34PM
Well, I was just talking about sex. Love is different. As we all know, LOVE IS BLIND, so if there is love, age doesn’t matter, or beauty, or prowess in bed. How else could hideous old couples continue to live with each other?
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
April 14, 2018 07:26PM
Sounds like (April 12, 2018 11:22AM) believes a mans ability, desire and sexual performance diminishes as he gets older as he refers to it as "a young person's game." That may be true for some older men but certainly not all.

Despite his negativity I hope for him a long, fruitful desirably active sex life with someone of his choosing regardless of how he himself physically ages!
Tracy
Re: Gay & growing older
April 14, 2018 08:42PM
Yes, love is blind. And usually retarded too.
^^^^
Re: Gay & growing older
April 14, 2018 09:06PM
Maybe when "Tex" gets older he can still brand a young bottom like this old man does:

https://iraqigay21.tumblr.com/post/170210208870/good-fucker-daddy-iraqigay21
^EEEEWWW!
Re: Gay & growing older
April 14, 2018 09:14PM
You RUINED gay sex for me forever!!!!!!!!!
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
April 14, 2018 09:21PM
"How else could hideous old couples continue to live with each other?"

You mean like your parents, Tex?
GBTQ men all over the of World
Re: Gay & growing older
April 14, 2018 10:15PM
"You RUINED gay sex for me forever!!!!!!!!! "
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OK. Thank you for your honesty and staying true to yourself. We now know there is one less diseased queen we all have to worry about.

Good luck to you.
Maduro
Re: Gay & growing older
April 15, 2018 01:59AM
I understand the mindset of young people today as I have been there myself and can imagine the woes of my elders. If I knew then what I know now I would have done some things differently but as the saying goes when you know better you do better. The reality is every living thing changes and grows over time. Some become better, bigger, greater and grander over time. If you're young, know that the best time of your life is yet to come. Wait and you'll see.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
April 15, 2018 02:52PM
At age 58, one big thing that I realize is that I have already lived most of my life. I can look back on the decisions I have made, the work I have done, the places I have lived, etc., and I don't have any major regrets. I can look where I am now and can compare my activities, health, stamina, friendships, etc., with the past and can say that some things are disappointing and some things are stable. And I can look ahead to my retirement, where I plan to revisit some things from the past, work on fixing the things I am disappointed with in the present, and live into an unknown future, hopefully with peace of mind and good health. I am grateful for my life.
^
Re: Gay & growing older
April 16, 2018 01:16AM
That's awesome. Gay culture has a fixation on youth and because of newer acceptance and we don't acknowledge our time, this will change. We need more influence from the previous generations.
:)
Re: Gay & growing older
April 17, 2018 06:28PM
Kudos to those understanding there is a place and purpose for everyone regardless of their age. That should also extend to race, color, creed, sexuality and place of origin but I guess we'll just take it one step at a time. There is so much we can learn from each others life experiences different than our own because everyone has a story to tell. We all have different needs, wants and desires as a result of some of our experiences which may not be for everyone. I am happy to hear that there are those who get fulfillment when they are met without hurting anyone.

All in all great post!
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
May 09, 2018 05:02PM
I believe there is someone for everyone so someone somewhere will still think you're hot no matter how old you are.
Latin Daddy
Re: Gay & growing older
May 12, 2018 08:12PM
Every man should celebrate the fact that he can grow facial hair. That's what separates the men from the boys. Trim moustaches and goatees or beards are cool looks for any man but ragged hair growth and hair dyes on facial hair is a definite no no. I'm 55 yrs old and I have a 1 inch long groomed salt pepper goatee and have received many compliments or advances from both men and women who are younger. I used to be completely shaven as to not let my age show. Who knew gray hair was a turn on to some.
^Si!
Re: Gay & growing older
May 12, 2018 08:57PM
"Daddy" type mature men are definitely in today! Especially "maduro" Latino males!
But ^
Re: Gay & growing older
May 27, 2018 01:14AM
The salt pepper haired look is sexy but only for handsome mature men in relatively good health!
Spike
Re: Gay & growing older
May 28, 2018 05:17AM
No one ever told me, I would get gray pubic hair around my dick. I shave the gray hair because it is depressing to see. I guess gray hair will grow in the crack of your asshole too. I have gray hair growing in my nose.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
May 28, 2018 04:25PM
Yes, that is one of the shocks of getting older. I shave/trim/buzz the gray hair wherever it appears. I had a friend who used to color all of his body hair with a toothbrush and dye!
Chavelito
Re: Gay & growing older
May 28, 2018 05:19PM
No one ever told me, I would get gray pubic hair around my dick. I shave the gray hair because it is depressing to see....
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^NOOOOOOOO! Don't shave your gray hairs! I love "salt and pepper" mature older males that are 50+ years old! I rarely have sex with guys my age and prefer them 15 to 20 years older than me! These men are so much more experienced and know how to please a man! One of the best sex I ever had was with a 71 year old retired Navy captain from San Diego! The only thing I hate is how even today society looks down upon older men (50+) having affairs with 18-20 year olds (my age range). Why is it "acceptable" for older str8 men to have affairs with much younger females but not for gay mature males to be with much younger (but legal) aged guys? And why do others "assume" that when I'm out in public with an older man that he's my father instead of my "daddy?" We still have a long way to go in accepting non-traditional relationships in this country! Anyways Mr. Anonymous, you sound like the type of male I'm into! Don't Shave the gray!!!!!
Spike
Re: Gay & growing older
May 28, 2018 10:02PM
My biggest fear, who is going take care of me in my 80's? I am already in a wheelchair and my grandpappy passed away last week.
^Reality
Re: Gay & growing older
May 29, 2018 12:11AM
You'll be made a ward of the state and be placed in a very depressing senior care facility of "Their" (the government's choice, NOT yours!). So yes Spike, your fear is justified!
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
May 29, 2018 02:26AM
When I was in my late forties, I dated a guy who was in his early twenties. Most of the time we spent together was at my place or his. We had some funny personal experiences when we compared his age to mine. But the times we were out in public made me feel awkward--the noticeable difference in our ages made me feel self-aware as some sort of stereotypical sugar daddy. Having a younger fuck buddy would be nice, but I don't think I would enjoy being a public couple. I'm not Liberace!
Spike
Re: Gay & growing older
May 30, 2018 12:22AM
They beat the shit out of old people in Nursing Homes and steal their valuables. I'll kill myself before being sent to a nursing home. I don't want to grow old and be alone.
^Reality Check
Re: Gay & growing older
May 30, 2018 12:56AM
You ARE old and be alone!!!!
Perry Mason Was A Homo
Re: Gay & growing older
May 30, 2018 03:39AM
LOL@Reality Check
Ramon
Re: Gay & growing older
May 31, 2018 04:45AM
We grow old, ugly, bald, and our pubic hair turns gray. Then we died or get prostate cancer by the age of 80. Faints at computer.
^Bitches Please!
Re: Gay & growing older
May 31, 2018 03:11PM
You guys crack me up! What's the "alternative" to NOT growing old? Yup! Dying YOUNG! Is that what you want? When I die I want people to say I look old, bald, with gray public hair at the age of 100 than having them say "Wow look how COMPLETELY handsome and healthy he looks lying in that casket" if I die at 25! You all need to "Grow Up!" LOL!
Just Curious
Re: Gay & growing older
May 31, 2018 03:19PM
I'll be turning 30 next week. Am I considered "old" now that I'll be leaving my 20's? How old is too old for you guys? I enjoy having sex with all ages 18+ as long as they can get it "Up" and stick it in!
Spike
Re: Gay & growing older
June 01, 2018 12:39AM
I want to be immortal by living forever staying young and beautiful. Bitch please a lot of young people have died at 25 from cancer, Aids, or a terrible disease and they looked like a skeleton and horrible looking.
Twice a baby
Re: Gay & growing older
June 02, 2018 06:24PM
Too bad people are not like trees growing bigger stronger grander and more majestic the older they get. Instead people often revert backwards as they age. Often weaker needing constant care unable to stand walk feed clothe bathe or use the bathroom alone. Losing teeth hair sex drive or have children and weaker immune systems. These are all qualities that newborns and infants have.

Is it a cruel joke our maker has played on us letting us know that at a certain point in life one is no longer useful?
Miguel
Re: Gay & growing older
June 02, 2018 06:39PM
I do not want to look like Benjamin Button growing old.
Aviso!
Re: Gay & growing older
June 02, 2018 09:36PM
Use Plexaderm or Sudden Change serum to help minimize those under eye bags temporarily. It really does work. Thank me later.
Josh
Re: Gay & growing older
June 03, 2018 08:15PM
There are millions of lonely old senior citizens that never married or had children. Ending up in a nursing home is not a good feeling. I am 63 years old living alone with no children. I often think about suicide. Christmas, Thanksgiving, and New Years are the worse holidays for me. I usually lie telling neighbors and coworkers, I am off to Paris, London, Los Angeles, or Miami for holiday.
^Pobrecito!
Re: Gay & growing older
June 03, 2018 08:20PM
^Damn Josh! Dat's the saddest thang I've heard all day!
Raul
Re: Gay & growing older
June 04, 2018 12:21AM
Josh, reading your comment made me depressed. Damn, damn, damn.
Triste Yo
Re: Gay & growing older
June 04, 2018 12:57AM
I'm soooo depressed after reading Josh's message! Now I'm thinking......"Can this too happen to me?"
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 04, 2018 02:10AM
Dealing with reality can either be depressing or fulfilling. Our bodies wear out, and then we die. So, knowing this, what are you doing today to make your life as fulfilling as possible?
Jeremy
Re: Gay & growing older
June 04, 2018 07:18PM
Most men will get prostate cancer by 80 years old. Being old whether you are gay or straight without family can be difficult. I am a gay closeted 58 year old gay man with no children, family, or friends. Growing older is scary and I most likely will commit suicide once I get older not being able to take care of myself.
^Que???
Re: Gay & growing older
June 04, 2018 07:27PM
I am a gay closeted 58 year old gay man with no children, family, or friends.
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^If that's the case, then "who" are you hiding your "gayness" from? LOL!!!!!
ILLEGAL ALIEN
Re: Gay & growing older
June 04, 2018 07:57PM
I am 23 years old happy living my life. I have 3 kids by 3 Mexican baby moms. Damn I never thought about getting old and being alone. That is some fucked up shit.
Darcy
Re: Gay & growing older
June 04, 2018 09:29PM
No Spouse, No Kids, No Caregiver: How to Prepare to Age Alone


https://health.usnews.com/health-news/health-wellness/articles/2015/10/26/no-spouse-no-kids-no-caregiver-how-to-prepare-to-age-alone
Spike's Grandy Pappy
Re: Gay & growing older
June 04, 2018 09:32PM
What are my fears of getting older? I'll be 70 this year and I'm living in a development for seniors (in Ireland) with a center attached and they offer meals Monday to Friday and some activities. Never thought I would live in the place like this where I am one of the youngest people here. Most people are in their 80s and some even 90s. Many have physical challenges and some mental challenges. And it is they mental challenges that worries me most.
Reality Check
Re: Gay & growing older
June 04, 2018 10:21PM
C'mon guys! I know many same sex male and female couples who are married and have kids! My uncle and his husband adopted a pair of siblings whose mom is a meth addict and dad was murdered in a street (gang) fight. They are excellent "fathers" and are giving these kids a wonder life in Huntington Beach! So stop feeling sorry for yourselves! If you want kids you can always adopt!
Dr. Van Helsing
Re: Gay & growing older
June 05, 2018 04:50AM
No one said anything about adopting someone else kid like 45 year old single Mayor Muriel Bowser. Many old people have children and they are still lonely because their kids don't give a shit about them living their own lives.
Pinoy
Re: Gay & growing older
June 05, 2018 06:02AM
First off, I'm thankful for this forum. There's not much out there where I can vent and express my feelings especially for somebody like me who lives alone.
I consider myself very lucky for living this old (43). I know some of you might think it's still young while others might think it's old. It really depends on who's reading.
I'm attracted to all age group and have had my share of good looking guys who are out, bi curious, straights who just want to get sucked. Bottomline, I love sex and been around. I get checked every couple of months and it's been negative, I'm glad.

I sometimes worry about getting old alone since I don't have a man in my life. I wish I do but where do I find him? I work as an RN and make decent income but I don't have the motivation to go to clubs or bars to connect with gay guys. I wish to find somebody who I can just spend my time with. I'm a bottom.

I just haven't found or met the guy. I live in the Inland Empire and there's not much going on around here. I'm thinking of moving to LA or San Diego and maybe meet my man there.

Thanks for reading!
LIam Neeson
Re: Gay & growing older
June 05, 2018 01:11PM
Sad topic.
Avisora
Re: Gay & growing older
June 05, 2018 03:13PM
I don't have a man in my life. I wish I do but where do I find him?
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^Chica, it's going to require "a little" effort on your behalf to find Mr. Right! He's not all of the sudden going to come knocking at your door! As an RN there should be plenty of guys around you- some who are probably gay too! You can also join "safe" online dating sites. Another option is asking family or friends if they know someone they think might be interested in you. A co-worker set me up with her grandson and we've been together now for 2 years!
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 05, 2018 04:27PM
There are no guarantees in life.

You may or may not find a partner.

You may or may not live a long life.

I am cultivating friendships with people of all ages so that I have a support network in the future.

I am saving money for retirement and planning to move to a city that is smaller and cheaper.

And, as soon as I retire, I am going to start from the end (death) and work backwards, putting everything in place (funeral, long-term-care insurance, manageable belongings, will, health directives, etc.) so that I can lead a fun life and deal with aging gracefully and without stress.
I read all comments with great interest. I am a gay not openly middle age man living alone. I had a recent heart attack and I was in the hospital for 2 weeks. Thank God I did not have to go to a rehabilitation facility. I have one good openly gay friend that visited me in the hospital. He was there when I needed him but I rarely hear from him because he is in a relationship at the moment. LOL Usually when people are in a relationship, you don't hear from them much. I am an only child with both parents deceased. I am estranged from family members like cousins because some are still upset that I sold my mother's home after her death, a home she inherited from my deceased grandmother. Those bastards expected me to give them money from the sell of the house and they never did shit to help my mother with the up kept of the house. At 63 years old, I no longer think of fucking another man or being in a relationship. The men that I am usually attracted to are young, hot, and very attractive like Cuban American actor William Levy. Many of the hot gay Ricans in New York City are hustlers looking for a sugar daddy. After having a major heart attack and I was alone, my biggest fear is having to go to a nursing home once I cannot take care of myself past 70, 80, or 90. Damn time went by so quick. I graduated from high school 45 year ago in 1973 to this month and I graduated from college in 1977. Most of the guys I grew up with are now married with grown ass children and grandchildren. I had several homosexual experience with some neighborhood guys on camping trips at teenagers and kids. 1 friend has done very well in his career living all over the United States being featured in Ebony and Jet magazines. I remember his friend telling me my friend rubbed his dick up against his ass naked in bed when they were 8 years old. No I don't like growing old, losing my hair, and looks. Death will be coming for me soon.
Deprimido Gay Jovencito
Re: Gay & growing older
June 06, 2018 12:07AM
Well now I'm totally depressed! This post is so SAD (and scary!). I don't want to grow old now!
Ramon
Re: Gay & growing older
June 06, 2018 10:58AM
@Julio; man I am glad you're still in the land of the living after experiencing a major heart attack. I am a 36 year old bisexual jock. I have siblings, nieces, and nephews. There is no guarantee they will take care of me if I cannot take care of myself once I am elderly with health problems. I will not have my looks, big dick, and body forever pickling up women or men at clubs.
Felepe
Re: Gay & growing older
June 06, 2018 03:19PM
LOL LOL@Deprimido Gay Jovencito; Julio's post is sad, depressing, and scary because I might be in his shoes one day. At present, I am 23 years old.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 06, 2018 03:41PM
You all are a bunch of Debbie Downers. Get over your sad selves and LIVE!
Damn!
Re: Gay & growing older
June 06, 2018 04:54PM
Please We-bbie, remove this ultra-depressing post now! I too fear dying old and alone! Very frightening thought!
Why remove it? It is life and some people need to hear the truth.
Cubans Blanco
Re: Gay & growing older
June 06, 2018 07:30PM
I can relate to this topic. I have not spoken to my family in years because they couldn't accept my being gay. My partner of 15 years left me for another man after cheating on me. I am 52 years old and healthy. I am a cardiologist at a Denver hospital. I don't have a lot of friends. The friends that I do have are in my age range with no family or they are estranged from their families. We made a pact to look after each other in our senior years like the Golden Girls.
Perez
Re: Gay & growing older
June 06, 2018 09:09PM
Great topic although it is depressing. LOL
Rose (bud)
Re: Gay & growing older
June 06, 2018 09:22PM
We made a pact to look after each other in our senior years like the Golden Girls.
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^Great idea! We here should do the same with other guys our age! And after "x" number of years all in our age group will agree to live together to look after one another! I'm 33 so if in 30 years I'm still alone all those between 30 and 35 can come together to form our own "family!" Excellent idea Mr. Cubans Blanco!
Sam Winchester
Re: Gay & growing older
June 06, 2018 11:37PM
Amen, Rose Bud.
Chilean American
Re: Gay & growing older
June 07, 2018 04:36AM
I often wonder who is going to care for me in old age with no children. Sometimes kids don't take care of their parents in old age. They sometimes put them in nursing homes. Life is going by guickly. I am 31 years old and in the gay life this is ancient.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 07, 2018 04:56AM
More negative Nancys!
Brad
Re: Gay & growing older
June 08, 2018 05:33AM
LOL; I wish I could stay young and handsome forever.
OSCAR
Re: Gay & growing older
June 08, 2018 07:28PM
Get over it, you will grow old, fat, ugly, die, going to straight to hell.
The Bye Bye Man
Re: Gay & growing older
June 09, 2018 03:37AM
Maybe the famous Chef killed himself because he was old, ugly, and a former crack head.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 09, 2018 06:07AM
I'm sad about the chef. I read his book Kitchen Confidential.
Bruni
Re: Gay & growing older
June 09, 2018 01:09PM
I am immortal and I will stay young and handsome together.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 09, 2018 05:17PM
I been hearing on the news a lot about young people attacking assaulting and sometimes robbing people much older than themselves. They walk up to them and punch or slash them or push them to the ground for no apparent reason causing injury or sometimes death. Then they run away. Its often captured on surveillance and replayed on the news since most homes and businesses have cameras. Some cultures respect and revere their elders but clearly some do not. Is this some gang BS or are they just bullies who prey on the vulnerable? If those young people live long enough to get older maybe someone will do the same to them. Karma.
Consejo
Re: Gay & growing older
June 09, 2018 06:26PM
In the USA with a population of over 300 million people (much more if you count those here illegally) how can anyone be lonely? Everyone has had a friend or two in their lifetime and most have had best friends at some time in their life as well. Remember that what drew you together initially were shared interests. They may have moved on or passed away but you're still here. Surely there are others who share somewhat of the same interests as yourself nearby but you'll never know if you've resigned yourself that they don't exist. First thing you must do is get out of the house and go places you enjoy being at. Strike up conversation by first saying hello and commenting on your surroundings. Keep in mind the best connections you can make with others is sometimes with those you least expect to connect to so don't focus solely on specific types of people. If its a place you attempt to frequent chances are others frequent it too. Be patient. Friendships take time to cultivate.
Manny
Re: Gay & growing older
June 09, 2018 09:28PM
If you are old and sickly and your friends are senior citizens with health problems, your old ass friends will not be able to take care of your old ass.
Bjorn again
Re: Gay & growing older
June 10, 2018 12:36AM
Good advice Consejo. Seek friendship and companionship first. Love and sex could follow with the right person.
Manny
Re: Gay & growing older
June 10, 2018 01:03AM
Is this some gang BS or are they just bullies who prey on the vulnerable?
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I heard that gang members initiate by attacking random people with expectations it will be televised on the news as proof. If more older people were armed with guns or mace these incidents would decrease. There should be an initiative to make that happen sooner than later.
Frankie
Re: Gay & growing older
June 10, 2018 01:31AM
Somewhere in this post being gay has taken a backseat to growing older. I guess it doesn't matter too much since growing older is a challenge no different for gays or straights.

Or is it?


If you are an older gay male tell your experience or how your experience may be different from an older straight male.
La Lady Corchis The Bi-Polar Bitch
Re: Gay & growing older
June 10, 2018 03:54AM
This DIVA will stay young and beautiful an eternity.
Old Latino Papi
Re: Gay & growing older
June 11, 2018 08:41PM
Yes growing old and being sick is depressing because I do not want to go to a nursing home. I do not expect siblings to take care of me because they're busy in their personal lives with their children and spouses.
The Bye Bye Man
Re: Gay & growing older
June 12, 2018 05:53PM
Yes you Queens and Butch Queens will grow old, alone ,and die.
Lonely Bottom Boi
Re: Gay & growing older
June 13, 2018 04:42PM
This time of year is the MOST depressing for me! As you all know, this Sunday is "Father's Day" which is a day that reminds those of us who are gay that since we have no children, this day is NOT for us! I'll visit my dad on Saturday and take him out for lunch. I never see him on Father's Day because I don't want to be around my older brothers who are married with children getting so much attention and gifts from their children why I sit "alone" in the background! I'll spend Sunday home and alone.........again. How will you guys spend this most depressing day for gay men????
Willow
Re: Gay & growing older
June 13, 2018 07:49PM
Well my father is dead and he was never in my life so I do not give a suit about Father's Day. I do understand what you are saying bottom boi. I am the midget, Willow.
Jacob
Re: Gay & growing older
June 13, 2018 09:56PM
This is a very sad and realistic topic.
OMG!
Re: Gay & growing older
June 13, 2018 10:39PM
I too hate Father's Day and how everyone "stares" at me with pity because I'm not a father! I wish life had a "fast forward" button we could press to skip Father's Day altogether! It's such a stressful day but I just smile and pretend everything is "normal."
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 14, 2018 04:12PM
You mope around on Father's Day because you don't have any children? You whine because you don't get any gifts and because you are alone? What complete wusses you are! Sounds like you are closeted gay Hispanics, not out to your extended families, but still participating in family gatherings. Why not come out, find a partner, have children of your own if you want them, and lead your own lives instead of trying to fit your family's expectations?
LOL!
Re: Gay & growing older
June 14, 2018 04:31PM
I like what our local school district did when it decided to ban any celebration or recognition or either Mother or Father's Day due to the number of students who don't have mothers or fathers in their lives. I doubt they even discussed how these 2 holidays affected the LGBTQ community (LOL!). And how would gays or lesbians (with or without partners) with children celebrate either holiday when so many children are growing up in non-"traditional" families? Both these conservative "holidays" have lost all meaning in today's "Modern Families." Today our school district teaches children that "family units" are composed of non-defined roles and we've also de-emphasized using the term "parent" altogether too.
Jorge
Re: Gay & growing older
June 15, 2018 10:17PM
Face it gay men without children, wife, boyfriend, husband. Once you get to 60 your body is getting older and you days are numbered on this earth. You will die lonely old ass spinster men.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 16, 2018 05:12AM
^^^
Speak for yourself, Miss Debbie Downer.
Perry Mason Was A Homo
Re: Gay & growing older
June 16, 2018 05:55AM
A lonely old ass spinster. LOL
Pobrecitos!
Re: Gay & growing older
June 16, 2018 06:54PM
I feel so sorry for my sperm when I shoot it into my bf's ass! They must get so confused and lost in there with no place to go! Pobrecitos!!!
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 16, 2018 07:35PM
^^^^^^ Why do some people think being gay and growing older is sad? Being gay and growing older without children is nothing to be sad about. Chances are they lived fabulously and daddy types are still very much in style.Consider how many people with children have grown older only to be put out of sight and mind in a nursing home thinking or expecting the children who they birthed raised fed clothed and cared for would do better by them especially from this new XYZ whatever generation which is all about self.

Now that is sad!

What is even sadder is dying young. The ground is full of the next generation thinking they were invincible.
^Agree!
Re: Gay & growing older
June 16, 2018 07:55PM
If you want family members to treat you as their dad/papa just remind them (as I always do) that since I don't have any children "someone" is going to inherit my estate when I die! Then you'll see how much attention they start giving you! LOL! Those Leeches!
Stanley "Stan" Zbornak
Re: Gay & growing older
June 16, 2018 11:08PM
Amen, Anonymous. I lot of heterosexual grow old and lonely. They mean evil ass children sometimes put them in a nursing home and forget about them. I had one old neighbor in her 80's may she rest in peace. She called me down to her apartment several years ago asking to borrow $100 from me until her Social Security check arrived. She started crying by saying, my mother should be proud of me because I was a very nice young man. She stated, she had 3 grown ass children living here in Los Angeles and all three wasn't worth shit. LOL

Hopefully Ms. B is resting in peace.
Solace
Re: Gay & growing older
June 16, 2018 11:42PM
The choice or chosen family/friends of gays often treats one better whether young or old than the biological family does. That was most evident in the 1980's when HIV/AIDS became known. Those and like minded are the people who will be there for you when you need them most.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 17, 2018 02:25AM
I will mention something that I just learned.

I have been maintaining a support network of friends in the city where I plan to retire. Just a couple of weeks ago one of those friends died, at age 47. That is the third friend to die in that city since I left. One was older, one was my age, and this guy was younger.

This teachers me that one has to continually expand the support network and make sure that it includes people of all ages.
Tupac
Re: Gay & growing older
June 17, 2018 04:59PM
Did they die of AIDS?
Rodriguez
Re: Gay & growing older
June 17, 2018 11:00PM
I cried when I read this topic because I looks like as a gay man with no family, I will grow old and die alone in a nursing facility.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 18, 2018 02:11AM
No, one died of Lou Gehrig's disease, one died of complications from Crohn's disease, and one had a heart attack.
Tupac
Re: Gay & growing older
June 18, 2018 02:14AM
Sorry for your loss.
Truth Hurts
Re: Gay & growing older
June 18, 2018 05:20AM
Growing old is only an issue for queens/bottoms.
There will always be a demand for older top daddys, especially if they have a big dick.
There is no demand for queeny old bottoms, though.
Nobody is looking for a "Mommy".
Sam Winchester
Re: Gay & growing older
June 18, 2018 08:18PM
You're a delusional faggot if you think a hot young man want to be tucked by a grand daddy.
Depressed Gay Male
Re: Gay & growing older
June 19, 2018 08:02PM
The problem I have is loneliness and depression. I have battled depression and a personality disorder for years. I mostly stay to myself and I never like being around crowds. I have not dated in years or had any type of intimacy with a man. I've noticed, a lot of gay men are messy or act like women. I prefer having gay or straight male friends that act like men by not acting feminine. However, most people are dealing and coping with problems in their lives or they're too busy to have friendships. I am approaching my 63rd birthday next week and I plan to do something alone to celebrate because I don't have what I call good friends or family. I have had some recent health issues and I've thought about suicide. I have been in mental health counseling for years, however, many municipalities are cutting mental health costs and closing mental health facilities. Politicians costly discuss education and affordable housing. Some large urban cities spend billions of dollars on education and the school kids are still illiterate or not being educated. I refuse to watch the news anymore because all the shit going on in my city, the U.S., and the world is very depressing. All people discuss is the idiot in 1600 Penn Avenue, NW. As a middle age gay male, I have come to terms with my being old, not as attractive to hot or good looking men, and I will die alone. I feel being born gay was a curse and I have asked God why did he let me be born like this. I wish I was born heterosexual with a wife and children because family should be the most important.
I turned 53 years old June 15, 2018. Where did the damn time go by so quickly? Back in the day in my 20's and 30's, I could walk into any club in NYC, Miami, DC, LA, Puerto Rico, London, and Paris, the hot guys would try to hit on me. I had a hot gym body back then. I rarely visit a gay club but when I do, I do not get as many hot guys hitting on me. I never thought about getting old when I was a young hot gay man. Many of the guys I knew back in the day has past away from AIDS/SIDA. When I reflect on their deaths, I become depressed. However, guys you must continue to live your lives until God calls you home to Glory. When I get depressed, I always listen to some good old House Mix Music.
^Que???
Re: Gay & growing older
June 20, 2018 10:33PM
However, guys you must continue to live your lives until God calls you home to Glory.
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^LOL! "God"is NOT the one who will be calling for your sinful soul! The "call" will come from down below!
Perry Mason Was A Homo
Re: Gay & growing older
June 20, 2018 11:52PM
LOL LOL; that I a nasty thing to say Debbie Downer.
Danny Amatullo
Re: Gay & growing older
June 21, 2018 04:16AM
Unfortunately we will grow old as we age. Remember the character Danny Amatullo I played on Fame 36 years ago? Carlo Imperato has got older with gray hair. He was a hot Italian stallion from New York City on Fame. Most the actors from the television series and movie Fame has aged or died. Leroy aka Gene Anthony Ray died from AIDS may he rest in peace. Debbie Allen, Jesse Borrego, Lee Curreri, Cynthia Gibb, Erica Gimpel, Billy Hufsey, Carlo Imperato, Valerie Landsburg and PR Paul have gotten fat, old, and have not aged well. Get over yourself because you will grow old and die. It is a part of life.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1nkpb4Wcjc
Johnny Boi
Re: Gay & growing older
June 21, 2018 11:58PM
What a depressing topic. I am 32 years old, however, after reading these comments, I became depressed.
Hum?
Re: Gay & growing older
June 22, 2018 12:20AM
Again this proves that homosexuality is a mental disorder IF so many older gay men are suffering from depression! We MUST prevent this from happening to younger gay males! They must be put into the controversial sexual orientation conversion therapy! We cannot just sit back and do nothing to prevent future depression of these innocent younger gay males!
Sophia Petrillo
Re: Gay & growing older
June 22, 2018 03:34AM
Go to HELL, Hum.....
Me
Re: Gay & growing older
June 22, 2018 04:51PM
I have an uncle who's nearly 60 and he's been with his male "partner" for nearly 40 years now! They met in college, fell in love, then kept their relationship a secret due to the fact that he being Mexican and his lover white, elders in our family would never accept either his sexuality or a white partner! Being gay was just starting to be "accepted" in the late 70's but far too many people still were very homophobic including his brother (my dad!). Once he came out to the family it wasn't so bad and I really turned to him for advice when I decided to come out a couple of years ago! My dad says he accepts me but I see the disappointment in his eyes when he looks at me. I'm currently starting to date men but have yet to bring anyone home to meet my parents! Is it bad that I feel kinda guilty for disappointing my dad by being gay even though he says he's ok with it?
I really enjoyed having sex with Rafa. I have a large and fat dick. He fucked me with his small dick and I felt so good. That I couldn't stop having sex with him until he as 45. He went back to Mexico. And I still have chats with him on facebook. Good memories..
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 23, 2018 06:58PM
"What is even sadder is dying young. The ground is full of the next generation thinking they were invincible."
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That much is true!
Imagine being a parent and having a child with so much hope and promise for their future only to lose them before any potential possibility can be met. I've know a couple of people who lost their children for various reasons and witnessed their absolute heartbreak. There will probably be no peace or resolve for some.
Wilfredo In New Jersey
Re: Gay & growing older
June 23, 2018 11:34PM
No parent expect to bury their child. When my mother passed away 4 years ago and Christmas, I wanted to die. As a only child and never came out to my mother that I was gay even she probably knew. I asked God, why didn't he take me instead of my mother? I was told it was best that my mother passed before me because she couldn't handle the death of her only child. This is why I never tried suicide after my boyfriend of 3 months left me. Today I ran errand alone as usually and tomorrow I might go see a movie alone. I have one good gay friend. However, now that he is in a relationship, he spends all his time with his boyfriend, lover, or partner. A lot of gay men are like that regarding once they're in a relationship, they don't spend time with their friends. Once the relationship goes sour, they come running to their friends hoping they will help pick up the pieces. LOL

I ask God to take me in my sleep and not let me die of a painful death. I know I will die alone because most people do. I was very lucky to be by my mother's bedside when she died talking to me.
~The voice of reason~
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 12:32AM
So many of you have posted here afraid of dying alone. The truth is even if you are surrounded by many people you still die alone because none of those people will die with you. More importantly if any of you have any faith in whatever religion you believe in you know there is a brighter light on the other side. Death is a life cycle which no one cannot buy or barter out of. You come into this world alone and you will leave it alone. You were ok then and you will be ok afterwards. Why fret about something you cannot control. Ultimately will it matter anyway?
^Agree!
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 12:55AM
The truth is even if you are surrounded by many people you still die alone because none of those people will die with you.
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^I know right? How many of us would want to die along with family members and friends such as in an airplane or car crash? Or have to listen to family members screaming as they're being brutally murdered before it's your turn? Oh Hell No! I prefer to die alone than to die with others!
Triste Yo
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 01:14AM
Well now I'm depressed even more now reading those last few comments!
~The voice of reason~
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 01:20AM
Actually the point of my post is death just like birth is a singular event. Neither is shared. An individual makes their mark on both ends solely unto themselves along with the marks they make in between. All marks make an impression in the lives of others. Always remember that and know that you were here for a reason and that you mattered.
Reality Check
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 02:40AM
Look on the bright side....in about 115 years everybody alive today in the entire world will be COMPLETELY dead no matter what their relationship status is!
Garcia
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 03:33AM
I agree with you, Triste Yo. After reading the most recent post, I became depressed and I ended up snorting coke. Now I am drinking Puerto Rican Rum from the island. Damn you guys no how to put a damper on a person's day.
Freddy
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 06:37PM
No deserve to go through life without having a boyfriend or partner. In my opinion being born gay I a curse by God. I think about suicide at lot at the age of 62. I am sitting here in my apartment watching tennis and fanticizing about having sex with Bornac Coric. I have not been with a man sexually in over 15 years. I have battled depression for years. Being a gay Dominican not married or without children is seen as a failure in the Dominican or Puerto Rican culture. I look forward to my death.
Freddy
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 06:47PM
Correction: Typing on my small tablet smell words wrong.


No one deserve to go through life alone without having a boyfriend or partner. In my opinion, being born gay is a curse by God. I think about suicide a lot at the age of 62. My birthday is June 26th and I think about ending my life on this day. I am sitting here in my apartment watching Borna Ćorić a Croatian professional tennis player stroking my dick because I stay so horny. I have not been with a man sexually in over 15 years. I have battled depression for years being on medication. Being a gay Dominican American never married and without children, I am seen as a failure in the Dominican and Puerto Rican cultures. I look forward to my death this Tuesday the 26th of June. I have cried enough over the years regarding being alone to full an entire ocean. I refuse to pay hot Dominican and Puerto Rican gay escorts for sex or to love me. My life is pathetic.
Freddy
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 06:49PM
Nadie merece pasar por la vida sola sin tener un novio o pareja. En mi opinión, nacer gay es una maldición de Dios. Pienso en el suicidio mucho a la edad de 62. Mi cumpleaños es el 26 de junio y pienso en terminar mi vida en este día. Estoy sentado aquí en mi apartamento viendo Borna Ćorić un jugador de tenis profesional croata acariciando mi pene porque me quedo tan caliente. No he estado con un hombre sexualmente en más de 15 años. He luchado contra la depresión durante años tomando medicación. Siendo un dominicano gay nunca casado y sin hijos, soy visto como un fracaso en las culturas dominicanas y puertorriqueñas. Espero con ansias mi muerte este martes 26 de junio. He llorado lo suficiente a lo largo de los años con respecto a estar solo a lleno un océano entero. Me niego a pagar las escorts calientes dominicanas y puertorriqueñas por sexo o por amarme. Mi vida es patética.
Kevin
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 06:54PM
This is the saddest topic I've ever read on this site. I am usually a happy bisexual man. Read these fuck up depressing comments, I became depressed thinking about my life as I grow older. They say, all men will get prostate cancer in their lives.
Kevin
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 06:55PM
Reading these fucked up depressing comments, I became depressed thinking about my life as I grow older. They say, all men will get prostate cancer in their lives.
God Loves You
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 07:02PM
Freddy, I hope will choose to live beyond your birthday this Tuesday the 26th of June because God loves you. Death is permanent. You are not alone and please contact the suicide hotline. 1-800-273-8255


Freddy, espero que elijas vivir más allá de tu cumpleaños este martes 26 de junio, porque Dios te ama. La muerte es permanente. No está solo y póngase en contacto con la línea directa suicida. 1-800-273-8255
Josh
Re: Gay & growing older
June 24, 2018 11:27PM
I just arrived home from the gym and turned the television on to CNN. Why do they have a live special on suicide and depression hosted by Anderson Cooper? Damn, I can't seem to get away from this topic. I thought by not coming to this site to continue to read these depressing comments, I would be uplifted. The news is depressing enough.
Sam Winchester
Re: Gay & growing older
June 25, 2018 05:52AM
I saw the CNN special regarding suicide. I did not know Anderson Cooper brother committed suicide. I battled with depression for years in my real life as Jared. Research it on the Internet.
Rodriguez
Re: Gay & growing older
June 25, 2018 03:54PM
You were right about Jared Padalecki aka Sam Winchester suffers from depression. I would like to bring this tall handsome stud out of his depression. I am sure he is packing and he has a hot body. I love them tall like Jared. He can fuck me until the cows come home.

Jared Padalecki Reveals Struggle With Depression: “There’s No Shame”



https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/jared-padalecki-reveals-depression-struggle-theres-no-shame-2015133/
Concerned
Re: Gay & growing older
June 25, 2018 05:57PM
To Freddy

Seems u may feel better and occupy you’re free time voluntaring
I recommend this two places above

aPLA. AIDS project Los Angeles over on Kingsley and 6th in LA
U work in the back packing. Gathering grocery for clients

Angel food project. U get to learn how to cook and be hands on in the kitchen preparing food or packing already cooked meals into plastic containers type platters for ppl living with aids It’s very rewarding and they teach u

Doing those things can lead to meeting new friends. And or a date
The Devil's Advocate
Re: Gay & growing older
June 25, 2018 06:14PM
Concerned, is English your second language? It's volunteering, not voluntaring.
Gilberto
Re: Gay & growing older
June 25, 2018 09:29PM
Please read the Huffington Post below article, The Epidemic of Gay Loneliness. In other words, you don't have to be old sick and lonely. Shit young gay men are lonely too. O-s-c-a-r smokes crack to deal with his loneliness. This is why he constantly discuss his Trannie girlfriend, @#$%& from Guatemala.


https://highline.huffingtonpost.com/articles/en/gay-loneliness/
Because...
Re: Gay & growing older
June 25, 2018 11:00PM
I just arrived home from the gym and turned the television on to CNN. Why do they have a live special on suicide and depression hosted by Anderson Cooper?
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^Dat's becuase they need a break from the non-stop anti-Tru-mp broadcasting while they get more material against the Pres-ident. Some of CNN's own reporters have secretly confessed that they are so tired of being required by the network to only focus and report on anti-Tru-mp news that they "pray" some BIG breaking news will occur like a natural disaster or mass shooting simply to get a break from "Trum-p News!" LOL!
Willow
Re: Gay & growing older
June 26, 2018 12:28AM
Amen; Because. I agree with you because I am sick of hearing about the man.
Oscar
Re: Gay & growing older
June 26, 2018 12:53PM
Happy Birthday, Freddy. Please don't take your life today because you're an old ass man at 63 years old. You're a old homosexual.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
June 26, 2018 03:43PM
@Freddy...Happy birthday man. Hope you enjoy your day ... Please dont take your life...
Freddy roomate
Re: Gay & growing older
June 26, 2018 04:58PM
Rip Freddy
Miss Lu Lu Hogg
Re: Gay & growing older
June 26, 2018 05:49PM
LOL@Freddy's roommate
Freddy's Gay Neighbor
Re: Gay & growing older
June 26, 2018 11:13PM
I have sad news, Freddy committed suicide earlier today. I am sadden and hurt him took his life. Freddy had battle depression for years. He was an only child and his mother died 4 years ago, Christmas Eve. He father is deceased but Freddy never had a relationship with him. RIP, Freddy. I cannot believe he took his life on his 63rd birthday. He should have been celebrating life.
Castiel
Re: Gay & growing older
June 27, 2018 04:03AM
Growing old can be difficult for a lot of people living alone. Please let this depressing topic go.
Freddy’s dildo
Re: Gay & growing older
June 27, 2018 07:53AM
I’m going to miss u Freddy. U and I were inseparable Every time u had urges. I was there to console you and make u feel good. Now I’m left alone. I hope whoever cleans out his apt sees the value I hold and will take me with them as I don’t want to be alone
Ron
Re: Gay & growing older
June 27, 2018 09:50PM
You are sick discussing a dildo and the man might have taken his life. I am 43 years old and I no longer run to gay bars/clubs. Now that I'm growing older, I am focusing on my health.
Matt
Re: Gay & growing older
June 28, 2018 11:16PM
This is why I like tucking in a casket while I am alive because I will end up dead in a casket due to old age.
Lucifer Morning Star
Re: Gay & growing older
June 29, 2018 01:18PM
This is life. You grow old and die. There's no way around it you old QUEENS. You're will die lonely old gay men with no children to love or take care of your old asses. Freddy is now in HELL burning for committing suicide.
^BITCH PLEASE!!!
Re: Gay & growing older
June 29, 2018 04:47PM
You're will die lonely old gay men with no children to love or take care of your old asses.
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^You don't know what you're talking about! Why do you think your show was COMPLETELY Cancelled? Anyways, this is California, the state will take very good care of our "old asses" when the time comes!
Lucifer Morning Star
Re: Gay & growing older
June 29, 2018 10:38PM
That was a setback, but I am powerful. Did I strike a nerve because you're a lonely old ass gay man soon to die alone?
Viejo Triste
Re: Gay & growing older
June 29, 2018 10:46PM
Damn! This post is so depressing! I hate being old and alone on a Friday night! Back in the day I'd be out at the gay bath houses fucking and getting fucked by complete strangers! Now I don't even have the energy to masturbate! Life suck! <---- NOT in the good way!
Old
Re: Gay & growing older
June 30, 2018 12:27AM
Guys entering they’re 40s should start to start to focus on staying healthy and going to the gym and start saving for later in you’re 60s
Building solid friendships can be helpful so u both look after each other as u get older
Sad Older Gent
Re: Gay & growing older
June 30, 2018 12:31AM
Sad how young gay guys just throw us older guys out! Some day (sooner than they expect) they'll be in our old shoes! Discrimination is loud and clear in the gay community!
Morales
Re: Gay & growing older
June 30, 2018 02:01AM
Amen, Sad Older Gent; I am 54 years old in good shape and I consider myself attractive. I've heard people under 30 gay and straight refer to men my age old.
Jacob
Re: Gay & growing older
June 30, 2018 04:14PM
This is one subject or topic I try not to think about. I am coming up on my 47th birthday in August. I have start to think about my mortality of my time is growing short on earth. It is sad that most men prostate grows larger as they aged and the pee a lot.
^Si!
Re: Gay & growing older
June 30, 2018 07:50PM
It SUCKS getting old! And it's even worse if your old and gay like myself! We are totally "worthless" in the eyes of both the str8 and young gay community!
Consider this.....
Re: Gay & growing older
June 30, 2018 09:00PM
Whether you are gay or straight and have grown older with or without children know that you had and still have a purpose. If you focus only the negative attributes of aging you will miss the positives. The positives can be sharing your life story with others since each of us are unique and fact can be much more interesting than fiction. Consider the wealth of knowledge you have attained including all the highs lows and been there done that moments. Witnessing first hand how much times have changed. The historic moments that you were alive for that the current generation would have to google to know about. You may not have discovered what life is really all about but you know your place in it and how it possibly impacted others along the way. For the most part younger people do not realize how much they need you to enrich their own lives. If you can share that with those younger who are willing to listen then you still have purpose.
Loner
Re: Gay & growing older
June 30, 2018 09:53PM
Sadly it’s all about youth and looks when u are gay and looking to meet for anything I remember hitting the gay clubs like. Circus and tempo in my 20s
And been hit on a lot by all ages. And ignoring the older ones trying to get at me
I had it going on. Now I’m in my late 40s and out of shape,balding,growing grey hair and when I stare at that mirror I wonder who’s that old man
I no longer hit the clubs and instead go on sex websites like Grindr or Adam and I’m overlooked.i hit on the young ones only to be told if I’m generous

The reality has started to sink in that I’m entering old age and senior citizen and feel I’m no longer part of the gay community
Now I resort to living alone with a dog and jerking to porn to release tension. Anyone else relate.?
Tomas
Re: Gay & growing older
June 30, 2018 10:52PM
LOL; your comment is sad but true. I laugh to keep from crying. You're not alone.
Stop Whining!!!!!
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 12:08AM
Going to gay bars clubs and bath houses were a thing of the past for older gays. You put forth a bit of effort to do that. Perhaps you were driven. A reason and a season. You had your fun now let them have theirs.Too bad most of you are obsessed on still being sexually viable to younger people. Most are not checking for you in that way so let go of that notion. Instead of trying to recapture your youth celebrate your age. There are many young people who don't live long so finding someone you can connect with on a more mature level can be priceless. Hopefully by the later point in your life you have had enough sexual exploits to write a novel about it with both good and bad results. Instead seek friendship and sexual compatibility with those who are open to it and have shared or similar life experiences. Apparently from reading these posts there are quite a few older gays seeking the same. Expecting others to feel sorry for you because you no longer put forth a drive or effort to connect with others falls on deaf ears here.
@ June 30, 2018 09:53PM
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 12:38AM
"And been hit on a lot by all ages. And ignoring the older ones trying to get at me "
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There is an old saying "what goes around comes around".
I guess you now know how it felt to be dismissed. Any regrets now that you are one of them?
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 01:06AM
Yeap, you reap what you sow. Now your ass is old and the hot masculine gay men are ignoring you. LOL
Seeking fountain of youth
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 01:48AM
Now that I’m entering my 50s I’ve de died to donate all my Old clothes from the 90s and 2000s
And will dress to catch up to how the youngsters dress to look younger. Soon I will get lipo and get an ass implant I’m excited to get back to the scene and meet up with them young cuties
! ! !
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 01:50AM
in about 115 years everybody alive today in the entire world will be COMPLETELY dead
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That's true!
If everyone lived forever this planet would have been overcrowded thousands of years ago and humans would have been sterilized so YOU would not be alive today to even read this!

Just saying!
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Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 02:05AM
Why does that sound eerily like a T-r-u-m-p administration plan for illegal Latinos?
The Voice of Experience
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 02:54AM
Its really gotta suck being gay growing older AND Latino.
Starbuck
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 04:19AM
It sucks growing older being a Negro, white, Indian, drag queen, or Latino.
Latino Blanco
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 02:58PM
You grow old and die. Sometimes you die alone with no family or friends to bury you. Have any of you stay in a hospital for more than a week? It can be a scary experience not having a wife, partner, kids, mother, or father to come visit you. One of the things I hate about some gay men, once they're in a relationship, they forget about their friends by not calling or coming around. The gay life sucks!
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 04:58PM
^^^
There sure are a lot of Debbie Downers on this site! You could be out living instead of whining here about getting older!
Dr. Van Helsing
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 06:33PM
If you're old, bald, an unattractive how can one be out enjoying life being ignored in society? Life @#$%& sometimes.
Joseph
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 06:53PM
I am a 60 year old Dominican male. My recent PSA levels were high. My urologist gave me the digital rectum and a csytcospy exam and he did not find any tumors. I have an enlarged prostate causing me to pee a lot. The thought of prostate cancer scare me. I have not masturbated since March 2018 because masturbation increases PSA levels. I have been lonely, horny and depressed. I don't have family or friends. I was so horny earlier, I jerked off watching BiLatinMen videos. Many of their models are sexy. I find Jacob to sexy with hairy legs and ass. The guy's voice making these movies sound hot. Has anyone seen him? After jerking off I felt guilty because prayed to Saint Jude to help me not to think about fornication and to heal my mind, body, and soul.
Pablo
Re: Gay & growing older
July 01, 2018 10:49PM
I was curious about the comments regarding the subject of gay and growing older. I am 27 years old, happy, employed, college educated, and bisexual born and raised in Los Angeles. After reading the comments on this topic, I became depressed hoping this will not happen to me once I get into my middle age years. Although I am young now, I think about my future and where I will be 20 years from now and will I still be good looking with a hot gym body. I have a nice size dick, 8 inches cut.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
July 02, 2018 01:26AM
^^^
Hopefully as you get older you will grow less shallow.
Perry Mason Was A Homo
Re: Gay & growing older
July 02, 2018 03:18AM
Or die.
Depressed Gay Male
Re: Gay & growing older
July 02, 2018 01:59PM
I am sad today after reading these comments. Faints at computer...
Old Former Gay Body Builder
Re: Gay & growing older
July 02, 2018 11:45PM
Although I am young now, I think about my future and where I will be 20 years from now and will I still be good looking with a hot gym body....
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^Sadly no, you won't be able to keep that "hot" gym body as the years pass. I know this from experience! I used to lift weights 6 times a week and had a very chiseled muscular body but as the years passed, by muscle mass started to go "south" due to gravity no matter how much I worked them out! I once had beautiful pectorals that guys couldn't resist! Now they look more like "moobs" and really should have had them removed or tightened up! My legs and arms are "flabby" now too! No way I ever dare to take off my shirt at the beach or pool anymore! Aging is horrible! Why can't we stay forever young???
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
July 03, 2018 12:13AM
Because the planet needs space.
Because the world needs new attitudes.
Because there needs to be room for new generations to make their mark.
Daddy Grace Fish Sandwich
Re: Gay & growing older
July 03, 2018 02:02AM
Only people I the Bible lived over 900 years old.
Realidad
Re: Gay & growing older
July 03, 2018 02:24AM
Truth is the average person living today will be completely forgotten 500 years from now!
Oscar
Re: Gay & growing older
July 03, 2018 09:36PM
@Youngster bragging about letting on gay men suck his little dick for $100. If you ass live long enough, you too will grow old and unattractive, and with a possible illness. I despise young faggots like you. Hopefully you will die a horrible death.
El Viejito
Re: Gay & growing older
July 03, 2018 10:36PM
This post is so depressing! Do we really have to be reminded how miserable it is being old, gay, and lonely? Have some mercy and compassion!
Jose
Re: Gay & growing older
July 03, 2018 11:11PM
El Viejito, I agree. This is such a depressing subject, and especially if you're over 50 years old or a middle aged gay man with not children or partner.
^YUP!
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 12:04AM
This is such a depressing subject, and especially if you're over 50 years old or a middle aged gay man with not children or partner.
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That's me! These are the dark years in our lives!
Bryce
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 12:50AM
LOL; you guys are stupid. Live your lives until the Angel of Death comes for you.
Old Relic
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 01:16AM
Live your lives until the Angel of Death comes for you.
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^Truth is that we are so old, irrelevant and lonely that even the "Angel of Death" has forgotten us which leads us to only one "option."
TNT Animal Kingdom
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 02:37AM
LOL
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 05:47AM
Debbie Downers!

I am 58, in good health, and looking forward to early retirement. My best friend died when he was 29, and I don't take a single day for granted. Moping around because of getting older is a waste of time.
William
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 11:10AM
I retired at the age of 55. I worked 35 years as NYPD police officer. It is too hot. Happy 4th of July lonely old gay men.
Rude Awakening!
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 04:41PM
I feel so old! The other day a hot grocery checkout clerk said to me "Would you like to purchase a grocery bag SIR?" Here I was thinking I may have a shot at him but that "Sir" quickly made me realize he sees me as an elder! Is that how you know your old? When hot young guys call you "Sir" or worse yet- "Mister?" I'm only 31! Do guys 18-25 consider those of us in our early 30's OLD?????
Peter Pan
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 05:13PM
Yes, Rude.
Hi All
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 05:58PM
Saying "Sir" is just a very formal way of being respectful to another man that one doesn't know informally. Don't be insecure about your age, that is just a waste of valuable time, embrace your age. Enjoy it! We are all one human family, and we are all in the same boat. Everyone is different. Me, personally, I try to do the right thing always. I have been alone as far as love, but I am always doing something and don't have enough time in the day for everything I am trying to do. To everyone here who truely has a good heart, know that you are loved, admired and appreciated.
Old and Depressed
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 09:41PM
That's bullshit. A 25 year old would not refer to another 25 year old or 30 year old as Sir. I am 61 years old and some people 40 refer to me as Sir and I don't look my age. I feel so damn old when they say Sir.
Marine Lov'r
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 10:37PM
Saying "Sir" is just a very formal way of being respectful to another man that one doesn't know informally.
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^So true! I'm just 28 and local young marines from Camp Pendleton always refer to me as "Sir." I find that so HOT!
Oscar
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 10:49PM
Whore...…..
Trampas
Re: Gay & growing older
July 05, 2018 11:35PM
I am 38 years old and I rarely think about growing old alone and dying. After reading these depressing ass comments, I now think about this shit. Gezzz, thanks a lot you bunch of depressing losers.
Hi All
Re: Gay & growing older
July 06, 2018 03:19AM
Be positive people! Act positive and the brain will follow! I want all the great guys here posting and helping each other on a daily basis to be happy, you deserve it! I imagine that if you are in real life (outside of these forums), helpful and respectful of people, like you are here, that your true "Family and Friends" will be watching out for you. I wish you All every happiness you deserve.
Realidad
Re: Gay & growing older
July 06, 2018 05:39PM
LOL! Funny post! But as a doctor "if" you gentlemen were truly senior citizens being alone would be the least of your worries! When senior men come together the last thing they discuss is loneliness that's "if" they can even still hold a lucid thought in mind for more than a few seconds! What these senior citizens complain about is aches and pains in the joints as well as incontinence/prostrate issues and yes- erectile dysfunctions! Obviously many on this message board are having "fun" with this humorous post! Keep it "up" gentlemen! I still can~!
Jermy
Re: Gay & growing older
July 07, 2018 03:53AM
@Ralidad, prostate cancer and an enlarge prostate was mentioned in this tread if you took the damn time to read them all. I mentioned prostate cancer in my post above and so did others. What kind of Doctor are you, a Witch Doctor?
Choices
Re: Gay & growing older
July 07, 2018 07:38PM
If being gay and growing older was really as upsetting to some of you as you say, know that there is a way to prevent that from happening to you. Its called suicide. Although I normally think its an unfortunate choice that people make its probably better for the rest of us to not have constant negative sad and whining people who see no hope promise or positivity roaming around spoiling the mood of the rest of the population. Suggestions have been offered multiple times in this post alone as a way to help combat your fear sadness depression and anxiety. Professional and medical advice has also been suggested. Narcissism appears to be key for most and if you cannot combat that then you are no use to anyone but yourself. If suicide is your choice please do it privately far away from others. Not in a way that impacts or inconveniences the lives or livelihood of others. Also write a notarized directive that you want no funeral memorial or any type of service since you already feel no one cares about you. Do it sooner than later to spare the rest of us your depressing posts as well. For the rest of us despite the trials and tribulations we experience growing older we still find it a life worth living and when its over its over knowing we were loved and will be remembered by friends and family.
22NYCBoy4DaddyBlue
Re: Gay & growing older
July 07, 2018 09:02PM
William
Re: Gay & growing older
July 04, 2018 11:10AM

I retired at the age of 55. I worked 35 years as NYPD police officer. It is too hot. Happy 4th of July lonely old gay men.
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Hi William. I bet you got one helluva pension. Do you have a young cutie to help cool you down and spend it on?

"Fidelis ad Mortem" forever. Mmwah!!!!
^^WHORE!!!
Re: Gay & growing older
July 07, 2018 11:44PM
!!! You CAN'T buy or sell companionship!!!
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
July 08, 2018 12:07AM
Those who find growing older upsetting probably have not had a good younger life. I myself still feel as young as ever and even though I see the aging in the mirror I still look forward to more adventures. Ive met many been lots of places and learned many things. I love to share some experiences but keep secret about others. There was good and bad in all of it but it was all memorable. Happiness comes from within and from unlikely places and people in your life. Get out be open be engaging and be willing to try new things. Don't be afraid to ask for help when needed and have faith in a higher being to call on to strengthen you.
22NYCBoy4DaddyBlue
Re: Gay & growing older
July 08, 2018 12:55AM
^^
Roll back hater because I found him first. If he is single he should treat himself after all those years of service.

Hi William :-)

As of 2011 seven years ago:
http://gothamist.com/2011/02/10/average_annual_pension_for_cops_585.php
Baby Jane
Re: Gay & growing older
July 08, 2018 12:56AM
Remember the wise words of the legendary Betty Davis:

https://i1.wp.com/geezerguff.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/Bette-Davis-age-for-sissies.jpg?w=429
The Virginian
Re: Gay & growing older
July 08, 2018 04:31AM
You don't know what it is like growing old and lonely until you experience it. All my fellow cast mates are dead and I am in my 80's. Doug McClure aka Trampas died in his late 50's.
Old Timer
Re: Gay & growing older
July 08, 2018 04:59PM
If being gay and growing older was really as upsetting to some of you as you say, know that there is a way to prevent that from happening to you. Its called suicide.
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^What a horrible thing to suggest to individuals struggling to accept that their best years are now far behind them! You should be Completely ashamed of yourself!!!! AND remember everyone: "Suicide is a PERMANENT solution to a TEMPORARY problem!"
Pobrecitos!
Re: Gay & growing older
July 08, 2018 05:28PM
Don't give up hope my fellow "mature" gents! This song is for you and me!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-qfMki_dCE
Gray Panther
Re: Gay & growing older
July 08, 2018 05:41PM
To my fellow seniors living alone with no family support or friends. Believe me friends are hard to come by. If you are single and gay, your gay friends in a relationship forget about you until they break up with their boyfriend, then they come running crying on your shoulder. Fuck em...


I take each day at a time. I have cried enough over the years to fill the Atlantic Ocean. Hang in there and try not to be too depressed. It is a beautiful day here in Silver Spring, Maryland. I am going to drive over the in Inner Harbor in Baltimore alone enjoying this day. I do most things alone because I have am estranged from family members, my parents are deceased, and I most friends are married with grandchildren busy with their lives. Once I am died, these motherfuckers will show up at my funeral and they barely called me to say hi.
^Me Too!
Re: Gay & growing older
July 08, 2018 09:01PM
I do most things alone because I have am estranged from family members, my parents are deceased, and I most friends are married with grandchildren busy with their lives.
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^For me the worst part of being old, gay and alone is having to go places by myself. Worst is dining alone at a table. I can't help but notice all the other customers in the restaurant looking at me with pity. I try not to make eye contact but sometimes I do glance over at them and see they are talking about me. I've been wanting to take a vacation and drive across the country stopping at tourist sites but I really don't want to do it alone so I simply dream about doing it! Rough being old, gay and alone!
Fernando
Re: Gay & growing older
July 09, 2018 02:38AM
When I turned 60, I treated myself to dinner alone at a nice restaurant downtown Washington, DC.
Hi All
Re: Gay & growing older
July 09, 2018 03:53AM
Well, I travel on vacation by myself, I go out to eat by myself, I go to events and festivals by myself........and I say "oh, well". I told myself I am not letting the lack of a companion stop me, as that would be silly. I have Family and Friends, but they either don't have vacay time, the finances, the interest in the things I like, etc. I don't let it stop me. Do not feel bad people! I am impressed by some of the genuinely nice, helpful, caring people who post here, try to gravitate towards that kind of mindset, and not the negative mindset of some. Try to join a group or club or non-profit or exercise class or something.......I want everyone here to be happy! You deserve it! One human family!
Spike
Re: Gay & growing older
July 09, 2018 02:25PM
After reading this story regarding an elderly 92 year old Mexican man was beaten, I do not want to grow old, lonely, and sickly.
Hi All
Re: Gay & growing older
July 10, 2018 04:57AM
Disgusting, people preying on the elderly like that, just horrible.
Daddy Grace Fish Sandwich
Re: Gay & growing older
July 10, 2018 05:46PM
Let's face it, old people both gay and straight get little respect.
The Candyman
Re: Gay & growing older
July 10, 2018 09:27PM
If you have live as long as I have, you should be thankful. After all, I am immortal.
Betty Davis Eyes
Re: Gay & growing older
July 13, 2018 02:54AM
I killed Blanche because she grew old
Jacob
Re: Gay & growing older
July 14, 2018 10:46AM
As we grow older, we will have all sorts of health problems and prostate problems. I just hope and pray as I get older, I can wash, walk, and do for myself because I don't want to end up in a nursing home. Did you hear about the 92 year old woman that killed her 72 year old son for trying to take her house and put her in a nursing home? You see having children doesn't mean they're going to take care of you in your old age.
Just Wondering?
Re: Gay & growing older
July 14, 2018 04:43PM
Exactly at WHAT age is one considered "old?" 30? 40? 50? 60+? Personally I consider those who are 50+ to be old. <------ Not that there's anything wrong with that! I've seen (and had) many 50+ guys who are smok'n HOT!!!
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
July 14, 2018 07:23PM
Choices
Re: Gay & growing older
July 07, 2018 07:38PM

If being gay and growing older was really as upsetting to some of you as you say, know that there is a way to prevent that from happening to you. Its called suicide.
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^What a horrible thing to suggest to individuals struggling to accept that their best years are now far behind them! You should be Completely ashamed of yourself!!!! AND remember everyone: "Suicide is a PERMANENT solution to a TEMPORARY problem!"
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I agree suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Too bad you didn't read the rest of that post. If you had you would have gotten the point of it which was directed at to those negative people who see no hope point promise or viability in growing older despite all the really positive advice given prior. There are some people you just cant help or get through to no matter how hard you try. Their feelings can be poisonous and influential to otherwise conflicted persons or those who have not yet reached their golden years. Lets not let that poison spread to impressionable people. Shut it down by any means possible because every life is always worth living at any age.
50+
Re: Gay & growing older
July 14, 2018 09:10PM
Exactly at WHAT age is one considered "old?" 30? 40? 50? 60+? Personally I consider those who are 50+ to be old.
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Depends on who you ask? You begin to age as soon as you're born. What's sad that at some point some people revert back not physically but psychologically and functionally as to where they have to be cared for as if they were an infant. That can be somewhat stressful and challenging for some family members as well as the individual themselves. I had that experience with my parents. That is where empathy comes in and narcissism goes out. The ability to care help nurture others in need is inbred in all of us. Cannot count the times when an older person got on the bus and I offered my seat to them while teenagers just looked at them wide eyed mouth open and stared while remained seated. So if you know of an elder person in need of help with something or needs a seat....get the fuck up because if you live long enough that will be you!
LGBTQIA
Re: Gay & growing older
July 14, 2018 10:37PM
Hear ye, hear ye !!!

This is now hereby decreed the official Gay & growing older BLM post international anthem as of today Saturday July 14, 2018:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPpfSp40qy0
^Que???
Re: Gay & growing older
July 14, 2018 11:42PM
That video looked more like "Dancing Queen!"
If your damn ass live long enough, you will become old and sometimes lonely like me. If you are young, handsome, with a tight body, big dick, and a phat ass, have lots of safe sex with as many good looking masculine men as you can. Once you start aging getting gray pubic hair, a beer belly, and bald, no young hot men will want you. Only old chicken hawks wearing trench coats at the bus station will want you hanging around bus stations and rest stops on Interstate 95.
Anonymous
Re: Gay & growing older
July 17, 2018 04:05PM
^^^
1. You are to blame for not maintaining your physical appearance.
2. You are to blame for thinking that fulfilling sex only involves "young hot men."
3. You are to blame for placing sex only at bus stations and rest stops.

You need to shape up, grow up, and come out.
NYC Puerto Rican DC Transplant
Re: Gay & growing older
July 17, 2018 10:42PM
LOL LOL LOL LOL; you people are sick. Referring to the last comment above mine.
Oldie
Re: Gay & growing older
July 18, 2018 12:22AM
Life's a Bitch and then you die! No other way around it fellas!
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